For some reason, Gammy Nevins has been on my mind. To the general public she was Caroline (Carrie) Brown Nevins, but to us she was Gammy. My mother's
grandmother died on New Year's Day 1960 and I have only a very few personal memories of her. Her records have been a bit elusive and I only have one census record from 1892 showing her in the same house with her father William S. Brown (Grampie Brown). The New England Historic Genealogy Society dug that record up for me and I am very grateful to them for it. Finally it occurred to me that perhaps they didn't
spend that much time together. So, here's a story for you. Much of it is
conjecture based on half-educated guessing and some of it is based in
fact. Who knows??
Caroline's father was
William S. Brown (Our grandmother always called him "Grampie Brown" so I do too).
Grampie Brown came to the United States from England in 1845 as a very
young boy. He wasn't quite 2 years old yet when his family arrived. Two
of his younger siblings were born in the Albany area before the family
found its way to Buffalo New York. William W. Brown (Dad) was a
blacksmith. I believe he may have worked as a blacksmith along the Erie
Canal from Albany to Buffalo since the trip seemed to take at least 3
years, perhaps a bit longer. The family settled in Buffalo and basically
remained there.
Just about a year after
Grampie Brown returned from his Civil War service, he married Mary
Burrows in Buffalo. At this time, Grampie Brown may have been a teamster but in later years he also worked at the lumber
yard and as a guard at the Penitentiary.
Caroline
S. Brown was born Oct 12 1873, after about 6 years of marriage. She was
apparently the only child of William and Mary Brown. This was a bit
unusual for the time but I suspect that her mother Mary may not have
been terribly healthy. The "S" middle initial for William and for
Caroline in unclear in origin. Carrie, as she was called, might have
been Caroline Summer(s) Brown. It was during this time period that I
believe Grampie Brown worked in the lumber yards. He was not healthy
either as he suffered from catarrh (as far as I can tell, this is a very
severe stuffy nose/post nasal drip condition); rheumatism and "disease
of heart and digestive organs"--this information was gleaned from his Civil War pension request records.
In
September of 1879, Carrie's grandfather William W. the blacksmith dies.
She is about 6 years old but I imagine the families were close. Just a
few months later, in April 1880, her mother dies of "dropsy" (heart
failure) in her early 40s. Grampie Brown is now left a widow with a
young child and his father gone.
Grampie
may have had no choice but to have young Carrie live in an orphanage.
The situation at the Buffalo Protestant Orphan Asylum was rather grim
for the 6 year old Carrie Brown in residence in 1880. Children such as
Carrie may have been placed there by family members who agreed to pay a
stipend for care. There was serious overcrowding and sanitary conditions
were abysmal. The playground was a small patch covered in gravel.
Education was, however, provided. Some children were placed with other
families.
Grampie Brown remarried in 1882
and you can see by this Family Search New York State census record that Carrie resided with her father and her stepmother in 1892. By 1900 when she was
about 27 years old, Carrie Brown was a servant in a home in
Ellicottville. My mother always said Gammy Nevins "never worked a day in her
life", but I think she may have worked pretty hard in the years before
she met and married Henry Nevins. Henry was a lawyer in Ellicottville at
this time and they married in 1901. Isn't it funny how what goes
around, comes around--or father worked in Ellicottville some 70 years
later?
I've been told that Gammy Nevins had
an electric car, which must have been kind of unusual "back in the
day". My grandmother told me that her mother would take to her bed when she
didn't fee like company and that her dad would take all seven children
on Sunday afternoon picnics so she could rest. Gammy only took
responsibility for the children's health. Every other decision was in
the "ask your father" category.
This
picture may have been taken in the early 1920s--maybe about 1922, making
Carrie almost 50. She looks older, don't you think? Amazing how bearing and raising seven children will age your
looks.